Negative Self-esteem Can Limited Our Abilities

            I remember the time I used to have negative self-esteem. I doubted my capabilities to do things. I thought I was not a good learner and could not do anything on my own. Because I had a negative mind, I also built my life on others. I depended on them and asked for advice to make decision because I could not even say what I wanted.

           Things started to change two years ago. I came to the U.S. and it changed my life. At the beginning, I actually had a hard time convincing myself not to go back to Vietnam. It was really tough for the one who doubted her ability to learn because everything have changed, including the language. I had no friends to give me opinions; my family thought I should already be grown up as a high school student, so I should do everything on my own. After a year in America, I overcame my doubts and started to fight to learn the language. I kept telling myself, "I believe in myself. I can do it."
       
           I believe that to get accomplishment I must think of the positive self-esteem. Because it is the way you see something, it could affect our beliefs and create limitations on you. Therefore, if you hold your positive mind of not to give up tightly so that nothing could shake you or drag you down. I know to better on something, I must get out of the negative box that keep my capabilities limited and accept a new challenge and work hard on it.

           I believe life is full of secrets as I will never know who my truly friends are and things go around me. Furthermore, no one could love me or know myself as well as I do.

          To have a meaningful life, I realize I have to take responsibility to get better myself. With me happiness is an important medication to keep people alive from a stressful moment. On the other hand, most of people would think the definition of happiness is having a lot of money because money can buy everything that we wanted so we will live happier. But it is totally wrong, a person who succeeds in life is the one who has beliefs, happiness, something to love and something to hope for because those things are the richest things in the world that not everyone can get it.

         To never give up and move on, I must encourage myself and keep going no matter what people trying to tell me I cannot be able to reach any incredible things or to get successful in life. To prove them wrong, I would keep trying to live and never give up following and obtaining my dreams.

         I know that everyone can change if they beliefs on themselves and if they let them be. It is a matter of dream and the way you see of your abilities. It is also the matter of how brave we are to take risk to change our lives to the better way that we dreamed when we were a little. I want a life with successful and happiness and I will do the best to achieve it. Now, I am definitely sure that I believe in myself more than anything.