I remember the time I used to have negative self-esteem. I doubted my
capabilities to do things. I thought I was not a good learner and could not do
anything on my own. Because I had a negative mind, I also built my life on
others. I depended on them and asked for advice to make decision because I
could not even say what I wanted.
Things started to
change two years ago. I came to the U.S. and it changed my life. At the
beginning, I actually had a hard time convincing myself not to go back to
Vietnam. It was really tough for the one who doubted her ability to learn
because everything have changed, including the language. I had no friends to
give me opinions; my family thought I should already be grown up as a high
school student, so I should do everything on my own. After a year in America, I
overcame my doubts and started to fight to learn the language. I kept telling
myself, "I believe in myself. I can do it."
I believe that to get accomplishment
I must think of the positive self-esteem. Because it is the way you see something,
it could affect our beliefs and create limitations on you. Therefore, if you
hold your positive mind of not to give up tightly so that nothing could shake
you or drag you down. I know to better on something, I must get out of the
negative box that keep my capabilities limited and accept a new challenge and
work hard on it.
I believe life is
full of secrets as I will never know who my truly friends are and things go
around me. Furthermore, no one could love me or know myself as well as I do.
To have a meaningful
life, I realize I have to take responsibility to get better myself. With me
happiness is an important medication to keep people alive from a stressful
moment. On the other hand, most of people would think the definition of happiness
is having a lot of money because money can buy everything that we wanted so we
will live happier. But it is totally wrong, a person who succeeds in life is
the one who has beliefs, happiness, something to love and something to hope for
because those things are the richest things in the world that not everyone can
get it.
To never give up and move on,
I must encourage myself and keep going no matter what people trying to tell me
I cannot be able to reach any incredible things or to get successful in life.
To prove them wrong, I would keep trying to live and never give up following
and obtaining my dreams.
I know that everyone can
change if they beliefs on themselves and if they let them be. It is a matter of
dream and the way you see of your abilities. It is also the matter of how brave
we are to take risk to change our lives to the better way that we dreamed when
we were a little. I want a life with successful and happiness and I will do the
best to achieve it. Now, I am definitely sure that I believe in myself more
than anything.
